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This site contains explicit writings on sex, BDSM, roleplay, and various mature fantasies.

I am aware that this is too long and too much information and ridiculous.

About me:

I am 44 years old, kinky, queer, polyamorous, white, cis male.

I was born in Brooklyn in 1976 and I’ve lived in NYC all of my life except for three rough years out west.

I am a dandy, switch, writer, author, producer, designer.

I’m currently in two long term ethically non-monogamous relationships, one for over ten years and one for over five years. I’m interested in new play partners, new flirtations, new people to date, etc.

I enjoy cold brew coffee, photography, cooking, reading, literary theory, postmodernism, maximalism, the occult, secret societies, the history of erotica, psychology, philosophy, typography, punk music, new wave music, rock music, early East Coast hip hop, lots of other music, music theory, Scrabble, Mah Jong.

I’ve been to about 35 states, Canada, China, Italy, England, the Czech Republic, Hungary, Germany, Austria.

I am turned on by over the knee socks, thigh high socks, glasses, pouting, banter, sarcasm, good communication skills, overtly kinky and polyamorous people, making out, giving people bruises, boobs.

My favorite authors are Anaïs Nin, William Gibson, Don DeLillo, Steven Millhauser, Mary Roach, Mary Gaitskill, Scarlett Thomas, Raymond Chandler, AM Homes, Daniel Handler, AS Byatt, Oscar Wilde, Hanif Kureishi, me.

My favorite bands are Elvis Costello, Joe Jackson, Gossip, Smashing Pumpkins, Blondie, Sleater-Kinney, Pavement, Spoon, The Cure, Pixies, Portishead, The Misfits, The Modern Lovers, The Smiths, The Replacements, Hüsker Dü, Sonic Youth, Ramones, Mazzy Star, The Specials, Radiohead, Pretenders, Jeff Buckley, etc.

My favorite movies are Bladerunner (both), Ghostbusters, Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, The Breakfast Club, Jaws, Chinatown, Amadeus, Dangerous Liaisons, Brick, Spaceballs, Groundhog Day, The Usual Suspects, LA Confidential, all that Marvel stuff, The Silence of the Lambs, Eyes Wide Shut.

My favorite television shows are Hannibal, West World, Killing Eve, Stranger Things, Mindhunter, Black Mirror, various Star Treks, Jeopardy.

My favorite podcasts are Reply All, Decoder Ring, How Did This Get Made?, Blank Check, MBMBaM/The Adventure Zone, Star Trek The Next Conversation, Radiolab.

 Online

You can find me online in the following places:
writingdirty.com, where you can find my books and free stories.
Jack Stratton on Amazon.com where you can directly buy my books.
writingdirty on Smashwords where you can more directly buy my books.
Jack Stratton on GoodReads
@writingdirty on twitter
@writingdirty on instagram
@writingdirty on medium
@writingdirty on ello
jackstratton on facebook
writingdirty on curiouscat.me where you can ask me questions
writingdirty on what is left of tumblr
email me at [email protected]

Associations

I am also associated with:
Tableaux: Art Salon & Mixer a lovely event held in Brooklyn.
TDG a social club, mixer event, and monthly artwork subscription service.

Flagging

I top for:
kissing
hair pulling
caning
discipline
flogging
punching
face slapping
edging
over the knee spanking
objectification
knife play
rope bondage
rough sex
Forced orgasms
leaving marks
orgasm denial
single tailing

I bottom for:
service
single tailing
breast worship
bruises
queening (face sitting)
flogging
caning
pussy worship
kissing

Zodiac Signs

Sun: Pisces
Moon: Sagittarius
Mercury: Aquarius
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Gemini
Jupiter: Aries
Saturn: Cancer
Uranus: Scorpio
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Libra
Ascending: Cancer

Chinese: Dragon (as are both of my parents.)

Myers–Briggs Type

INTJ – The Scientist
Independent, original, analytical, and determined. Have an exceptional ability to turn theories into solid plans of action. Highly value knowledge, competence, and structure. Driven to derive meaning from their visions. Long-range thinkers. Have very high standards for their performance, and the performance of others. Natural leaders, but will follow if they trust existing leaders.

Enneagram Type

Five (wing 2)
The Intense, Cerebral Type
Perceptive, Innovative, Secretive, and Isolated