This site contains explicit stories of sexual & kinky fantasies and is not intended for readers under 18.

I am aware that this is too long and too much information and ridiculous.

About me:

I am 45 years old, kinky, queer, polyamorous, white, cis male.

I was born in Brooklyn in 1976 and I’ve lived in NYC all of my life except for three rough years out west.

I am a dandy, switch, writer, author, producer, designer.

I’m currently in two long term ethically non-monogamous relationships, one for over ten years and one for over five years. I’m interested in new play partners, new flirtations, new people to date, etc.

I enjoy cold brew coffee, photography, cooking, reading, literary theory, postmodernism, maximalism, the occult, secret societies, the history of erotica, psychology, philosophy, typography, punk music, new wave music, rock music, early East Coast hip hop, lots of other music, music theory, Scrabble, Mah Jong.

I’ve been to about 35 states, Canada, China, Italy, England, the Czech Republic, Hungary, Germany, Austria.

I am turned on by over the knee socks, thigh high socks, glasses, pouting, banter, sarcasm, good communication skills, overtly kinky and polyamorous people, making out, giving people bruises, boobs.

My favorite authors are Anaïs Nin, William Gibson, Don DeLillo, Steven Millhauser, Mary Roach, Mary Gaitskill, Scarlett Thomas, Raymond Chandler, AM Homes, Daniel Handler, AS Byatt, Oscar Wilde, Hanif Kureishi, me.

My favorite bands are Elvis Costello, Joe Jackson, Gossip, Smashing Pumpkins, Blondie, Sleater-Kinney, Pavement, Spoon, The Cure, Pixies, Portishead, The Misfits, The Modern Lovers, The Smiths, The Replacements, Hüsker Dü, Sonic Youth, Ramones, Mazzy Star, The Specials, Radiohead, Pretenders, Jeff Buckley, etc.

My favorite movies are Bladerunner (both), Ghostbusters, Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, The Breakfast Club, Jaws, Chinatown, Amadeus, Dangerous Liaisons, Brick, Spaceballs, Groundhog Day, The Usual Suspects, LA Confidential, all that Marvel stuff, The Silence of the Lambs, Eyes Wide Shut.

My favorite television shows are Hannibal, West World, Killing Eve, Stranger Things, Mindhunter, Black Mirror, various Star Treks, Jeopardy.

My favorite podcasts are Reply All, Decoder Ring, How Did This Get Made?, Blank Check, MBMBaM/The Adventure Zone, Star Trek The Next Conversation, Radiolab.


You can find me online in the following places:, where you can find my books and free stories.
Jack Stratton on where you can directly buy my books.
writingdirty on Smashwords where you can more directly buy my books.
Jack Stratton on GoodReads
@writingdirty on twitter
@writingdirty on instagram
@writingdirty on medium
jackstratton on facebook
writingdirty on what is left of tumblr
email me at [email protected]


I top for:
hair pulling
face slapping
over the knee spanking
knife play
rope bondage
rough sex
Forced orgasms
leaving marks
orgasm denial
single tailing

I bottom for:
single tailing
breast worship
queening (face sitting)
pussy worship

Zodiac Signs

Sun: Pisces
Moon: Sagittarius
Mercury: Aquarius
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Gemini
Jupiter: Aries
Saturn: Cancer
Uranus: Scorpio
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Libra
Ascending: Cancer

Chinese: Dragon (as are both of my parents.)

Myers–Briggs Type

INTJ – The Scientist
Independent, original, analytical, and determined. Have an exceptional ability to turn theories into solid plans of action. Highly value knowledge, competence, and structure. Driven to derive meaning from their visions. Long-range thinkers. Have very high standards for their performance, and the performance of others. Natural leaders, but will follow if they trust existing leaders.

Enneagram Type

Five (wing 2)
The Intense, Cerebral Type
Perceptive, Innovative, Secretive, and Isolated